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*lama1171
writes:I have been married for bout three years we like to try new things in bed. The topic of him using a dildo on me kind of scares me. I do not understand why i have given birth but can not for the life of explain y. How do i get over the fear of using a dildo.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2012): Why should you have to get over this fear? Just stick with doing things that don't scare you. Surely your husband will understand. If he doesn't and insists you should get over your fear then all the more you should not be doing it instead you need to have a discussion with him about your right to feel safe.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (9 September 2012):
 You could get a copy of my CD titled, "Mr Dildo is your friend"..... it has many songs and poems that you can listen to.... and they will relax you and prepare your for the euphoria that you are about to experience (ASSUMING you use your dildos according to the instructions!!!!)....
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Good luck...
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reader, person12345 +, writes (9 September 2012):
 "How did he get over his fear of you using the dildo on him?" Priceless.
I would say if you really want to try, you should play with it alone first to get used to it. If you want to do it together, use it on yourself while you're together.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (9 September 2012):
 if it scares you then don't do it.
why would you want to do something for him that scares you?
would you like to use an anal probe on him? if so how does he feel about it? would you want him to do something that scares him?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (9 September 2012):
 If it scares you, it scares you. Do you really have to use it?
How did he get over his fear of you using the dildo on him?
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