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writes:I need advice on how to get over my ex. He was my first proper relationship and we were together almost 7 months.He broke up with me beacuse he found out something at the start of our relationship and couldnt cope with it eventhough he told me he was over it. One minute he tells me he still loves me n would maybe get back with me in the future. He says times the best healer. But the next minute he's calling me names and delibratly trying to upset me by being all over other girls in front of me. We tried to be civil but it didnt work and he told me he never wants to talk to me again. I still think about him alot and need help getting over him. Any advice.
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reader, Evangeline +, writes (6 October 2007):
 Hey,
Dont worry it will be ok! I had exactly the same thing with my first boyfriend; who said and did all the same things that you describe.
You will get over him in time, but it might just take a little bit longer than you thought it would initially.
The BEST thing to do is do nothing. Don't try talking to him, seeing him, calling, texting him for a while - until you are completely over him.
If you try to be friends or be civil too soon the only thing that will happen is that you will get more upset.
Boys are really difficult at this age - their behaviour is often just a bit mean and nasty when it comes to girls. Its because they are very immature (like us girls really) except it is a different type of immaturity which makes the whole thing much more confusing!
Hope this helps!
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reader, amber nuttall +, writes (4 October 2007):
About a month ago, i had exactly the same. I'd been with my boyfriend for almost 10 months, and would of gave him the world.
The best way, for me to get over it. Was time. I also lost contact with him.
It was so hard listening to him, how he loves me but cant be with me. So, i didnt call him he didnt call me, and had no contact.
Its been one month, and i still love him. But can accept the fact were just not meant to be.
My advice to you, is to not talk to him, not until you are over him. These things just takes time, it will all be okay soon.
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