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First my ex says he still loves me, then he says he never wants to see me again. How do I get over him?

Q.   I need advice on how to get over my ex. He was my first proper relationship and we were together almost 7 months.He broke up with me beacuse he found out something at the start of our relationship and couldnt cope with it eventhough he told me he ...

A.   4 October 2007: About a month ago, i had exactly the same. I'd been with my boyfriend for almost 10 months, and would of gave him the world. The best way, for me to get over it. Was time. I also lost contact with him. It was so hard listening to him, how he loves... (read in full...)

Do you think what I did was cheating?

Q.   I have been married for 14 years and a year ago my best friend and I had too much to drink and we kissed for less then 2 minutes(female). I told my husband yesterday and he said I cheated so it's over. Do you think that is cheating?...

A.   26 September 2007: My last boyfriend said that it was cheating too. To be honest it does depend on the person, and how they feel about things like that.... (read in full...)

I'm torn between an older man and my fiance, what do I do?

Q.   ive been with my fiance for 5 years but over the last few months ive been seeing a man that is 11 years older than me, he is single but im falling for him or should i say i already have and i dont know what to do. i dont wanna hurt any one but...

A.   26 September 2007: not long ago myself, i was torn between two people. In the end, my boyfriend found out, and we broke up. Im now single with no-one. But at the end of the day, who do you want to be with? Unfortunately, it will all end up collapsing soon if you don't ... (read in full...)

Should I break up with my bf or tell him I was unfaithful? I feel guilty.

Q.   Dear cupid, I have been in a serious relationship for exactly 3 years, I love my boyfriend to death but lately we've been going through a ton of problems, mostly trust issues. I had this strong gut feeling that he was cheating on me!!...

A.   9 September 2007: Something similar happened to me, i told my boyfriend about it. Me and my boyfriend ended up breaking up, & the other guy was no longer interested in me! I then found out he had his own girlfriend, whom hes still with now. I've wished ever since ... (read in full...)

What are the signs that a person is not over his ex, though he initiated the break-up? I'm scared to ask him.

Q.   I recently broke up with my bf , and well yesterday i saw him, and he ws acting really awkward and wasn't his usual self, and kinda looked at me... he was the one who initiated the breakup... ppl said he isn't over me... are these the signs tht ...

A.   9 September 2007: Yes, it seems he still has feelings for you. Talk to him, but he obviously had other reasons for wanting the break up other than not liking you anymore. You will never know how he feels, and wether you should be back together or not, until you talk ... (read in full...)

Does anyone have some advice about kissing technique?

Q.   Hey, this is a simple question. Does anyone have some advice about kissing technique? For all the guys: What do you all like best from a girl when kissing? ...

A.   14 August 2007: Tbh it takes time to get the perfect kiss, also depends on the person. Use a bit of toungue, not too much. Use your lips, and bite the bottom lip gently. ... (read in full...)

I am 13 and I want to lose my virginity

Q.   i am a 13 year old girl and want 2 loose my virginity but the thing is i do not no how to have sex and plus im scared if i bleed whilst having sex!!is there any chances that i will bleed?and my mates say that you cant walk after wards is that ...

A.   14 August 2007: Don't have sex at such a young age, i made that mistake. I bled, couldnt walk. It was swollen, sore and painful for days! It was the worse experience of my life, and have regretted it ever since. Unfornately, i never wanted to have sex again. I alw... (read in full...)

12 and been having sex with a married man. What should I do?

Q.   hi i am 12 years old ands I live in wisconsin. I've been having sex with this guy (i baby sit for) he does not use condums when we doit he says hes alergic to them. I dont know what to do but i think i am pregnant. for the last 3 months he has not ...

A.   14 August 2007: Please, stop this relationship straight away! He has no respect for you, and your body. Its ruining your life, and his. You could be pregnant, your only 12! What if you did have a baby? Whats his wife and children going to do then?-Get up and lea... (read in full...)

I am 12 and I want to have sex without being caught

Q.   iam 12 and want sex i just moved dont know any body. Who can i have sex with and not get caught?...

A.   14 August 2007: Don't bother having sex yet. Sex is not good at a young age, it will deffinetly put you off it! Wait until your much older. Thats my advice.... (read in full...)

Was this RAPE?

Q.   Around 10 months ago I was out with an old friend from school and she met 2 of her friends which were 2 lads that I did not really know but had seen around the area a couple of times. They got pretty drunk and at first I didn't touch any drink but ...

A.   14 August 2007: I've had the same thing, when i was fourteen. I was raped, but didn't do anything about it. I hope your coping, all i have to say, atleast he did use a condom. If you need to talk with someone whos been there before, im happy to chat.... (read in full...)

How do I know if I'm ready for sex (or not)?

Q.   I don't know if I am ready for sex but I really want to give my boyfriend my virginity he is really nice and cares about me and is only willing to do it if I am ready for it. It will be my first time and he is wanting to make it the best. How will I ...

A.   14 August 2007: I offer my advice, and my advice is to wait for the right person, who you feel comfortable with. Don't blow your v on someone whom you don't love. and Wait for when the time happens, it will happen when it happens. aha. Don't plan these thing... (read in full...)

I had sex with my brother and I'm worried about being pregnant.

Q.   I had sex with my brother I only started my period a month ago and I know your not even supposed to have produced eggs by this point but I'm worried and I don't want tests or to tell anyone. Please help....

A.   14 August 2007: You need to sort it out quickly. You should always use contreception. I started to have sex at your age, and i had men forcing me into having sex a few times, not one used contreception. I would sit and pray for my period to start. I've been very ... (read in full...)

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