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anonymous
writes:Well first of all I'm 13. I don't know how to get over my ex boyfriend and it's been 4 months.I have a boyfriend that I like very much but I have no idea how to get over my ex can some one please help me???!!!!!?????
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reader, Colormevibrant +, writes (8 May 2009):
First, the fact that you have a new boyfriend that you "like very much" is EXCELLENT. That shows you're taking all the right steps to get over your ex.
Now, the bad news. If your ex was your first real love, we never really "get over" them. It helps when you're 33 and you go back to your HS reunion and discover he's put on 75 pounds and has started to go bald -- but that's a ways away for you.
The GOOD news is, although it takes awhile, we DO eventually find others to love. Once you hit high school, there'll be, like, TRIPLE the number of cute, funny, smart guys running around all vying to win your attention. You'll remember your ex, but you'll like your NEW boyfriends a WHOLE lot better!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009): Your dating another guy and still hooked on your first? Why not think of the reason you and your ex broke up. Inhance the reason and say I can do better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009): Cut contact with him as much as possible until the feelings fade with time (and trust me, they will. This has happened to me so many times and I'm almost 25).
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