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writes: hi.i'm 30 year old divorcee with a 5 yrs old son.last year i fell in love with a catholic guy n want to marry him now.the problem is that my parents didn't like him at all.if i go against my family,they will disown me.i feel stuck now.want to be with my guy forever but dont wanna hurt my parents too.wat to do? plz help.
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reader, The Fonz  +, writes (28 January 2007):
 I presume your parents do not like him because he is Catholic.
I am sure that over time, they will see that his desire and love for you makes you very happy. They would be foolish to allow his beliefs to overshadow your happiness. I feel they will begin to like him more as they see how happy he is making you and your son. Family values and happiness is more important than religious belief surely.
Give your parents time. Give the relationship time and I am sure love will conquer all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2007): i think you should mary him becuase you could be passing up a great oppertunite your parents should be happy with the man that you love if they love you they would let you marry him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2006): you nid to knw,,, the best thing that you have to do.. you knw its not too easy to choose but you nid to knw the consequences of what you r doing,,, against all odd.... try to make a dinner with him and with ur family den on that day you nid decide... if that boy loves you, he sacrifices his love if ur family loves you, they decide what is too right to all of you...... too hard but too easy if you already have a plan about it!!!! hope it all goes well for you in whatever you choose to do
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (11 February 2006):
 all i can say to you is do your family know him if not give them the chance to meet him and get to know him thereselves i don't want to tell you to go against your family but you can't put your life on hold from love just because someone doesn't approve if you love him and he makes you happy and feel they way you want to then i would say go for it your family will come t terms with it and realize that your not backing down and you do truely love this guy.
i hope it all goes well for you in whatever you choose to do
all the best xxx
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