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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Recently, I've felt up and down about my relationship, even though there's nothing really wrong going on. We don't argue or lie to each other about anything, in fact, we're rather open with each other, which I know is a good thing.The matter of concern is that I haven't really been 'feeling it' lately, sexually speaking I mean. I'm most comfortable around him which I know is a positive thing, and earlier on doing things with my boyfriend felt right. At the minute, I just seem too exhausted to want to do anything or feel I have no desire to do anything to him/let him do anything to me. He knows that I have a lot to think about soon, such as exams and my birthday next week. He understands that there are more important things in a relationship than just sexual things, which I admire about him greatly.I still appreciate and want his comfort/company, which I made a point in explaining to him yesterday. I still WANT him, with me, but right now I just feel no desire or gain no pleasure from the sexual side. I'm hoping it's just hormones and my body changing etc..but I don't know. I have a loving boyfriend who'd do anything for me and I just feel lost, I know I shouldn't moan about nothing but I feel so out-of-touch with myself, if I try to ignore it, it comes back round' and bites me in the behind.I just worry and get down in the dumps about nothing in particular and I don't know what to do. He tells me he loves me whenever I'm down, it makes me feel a little better, but it still feels as if there is something unresolved going on in my mind, but I just can't seem to pin-point what it could be. I'd massively appreciate if somebody could get back to me on this ASAP, I'm in need of outside opinions/suggestions.Thank you.
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