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writes:I been going to school with this girl since kindergarden we are now seniors in high school an we are best friends. We tell each other everything there's not a single secret we have when she needs help she comes to me when she's sad she comes to me. For the last 4-5 years my feeling for her have completely change I love her more than anything in this world I would lay down an die for her. I've tried dating other people but can't because she is all I thinks about. My last relationship lasted a month an that was a year ago because no matter who I'm with she's the only one I really want to be with. She always tells me about the guys she likes and things they do everything the do an I hate hearing it. When she does I jus get a sick mad feeling. I ve tried to tell her so many times how I feel about her but I can't ever do it because I'm so scared that if she doesn't feel the same then it will make it so akward for her to be around me that it will ruin our friendship and I'll lose her completely. People always think we are dating an people who know us always say we should date. About a week ago she was talking about a guy and I ask her how come we have never dated and she just said we have been like brother an sister since we were little. I don't know what to do I'm so in love with her but it doesn't seem to matter. I'm everything in a guy she wants I treat her better than anyone I'm always there for her but she doesn't see it.
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (4 March 2010):
 This is an awkward situation to be in, but it is common. I had a crush on one of my female friends for a year or so, but someone else came along for me.
You should be able to tell if she has similar feelings for you, in little ways she may touch you a lot or flirt with you. How she looks at you is another way to tell, does she laugh at every one of your jokes even if they are bad?
Try asking her on a date, if she doesnt accept then I would advise not to push it anymore as it will be obvious she doenst love you in that way and just sees you as one of her friends.
Be prepared for rejection, but dont let it set your confidence down.
If she does say no then dont let it ruin your good friendship with her. If she says yes then just take things slow and time will make it all happen for you.
Good luck.
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