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writes:Well this is the short and long story.... I'm in a casual relationship right now, although i really do like him, actually love him alot. The thing is, i'm starting to have really very strong feelings for the company i work for, workshop manager! I know it sounds crazy, he will ignore me for weeks on end and just out of the blue will make coffee or tease me about something that makes no sense. I have thought about it but i really dont think if he know who the real me is he would dislike that and we just could never be together. This guy i'm with in this causal relationship is really very sweet and loving and carrying he has just through a tough patch and just needs some time. I really dont want to hurt him because i really have deep feelings for him and would like to be with him forever, but this other guy just wont escape my mind, how can make sure i dont think of this other guy and just get a hold of myself? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): Just remind yourself that the guy at work doesn't pay you a lot of attention so when he does he is just being nice and probably not interested in you. It is natural to get attracted to people now and again so don't worry about it.
You say you like the one you are with and have deep feelings for him, so don't spoil it.
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reader, Lilly Rose  +, writes (20 May 2009):
 Well its prob the whole wanting something you can't have.....you have a good boyfriend but you yern for this other man who sometimes pays you attention.....i don't know why we get like this but we do.....i say its ok to flirt etc with other guy but it doesnt sound like hes that keen as he surely would of shown you a sign by now or even asked you out......don't waste time on him, focus more on your current boyfriend...maybe your just bored and looking for some excitement something new!
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