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writes: Hi,I have become really close friends with a guy at my university, we are barely ever apart! I have fallen in love with him and I recently told him so and he said that he just wants to be friends. We are both Christian and we share the same interests, I'm not ugly so that can't be why... I was wondering if anyone would have any tips on how I can hook this guy? There really is no reason why we are not meant to be! He isn't commitment phobe either as he is looking forward to getting married and having kids and there isn't anyone else that he is interested in!!!!I would be really upset if we didn't get together.Thankyou for your advice
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reader, marieclaire  +, writes (14 October 2006):
 if he said that he just wants to be friends then there is a reason. sometimes it doesn't matter what you look like or how you get along things just arent meant to be and you can't force it. sorry. maybe its not you. just because he wants to get married some day doesn't mean that he is ready for a relationship at the minute. there could be factors you don't know anything about
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reader, happytochat  + ♥, writes (14 October 2006):
I think this sadly seems like a situation where you might just have to accept that hes not looking to be in a relationship at this point in time for whatever reason. I think it would be a bad idea to try and force him into something that at first he said no to, cause later he might regret. Try talking to him again and get specific details as to why he only just wants to be friends. Its probably nothing personal towards you, as you said you know he feels the same way, but maybe he just doesn't want to be in a relationship at this point in time for whatever reason. Geting more answers as to why he has made this statement about being just friends that upsets you might put you head at ease and it may even give you hope that thigns might work out sometime in the future. good luck and hope all goes well.
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