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*loveheralot
writes:I met this girl from friendster.we chat loads on msn.and we got along really well..like 2 days aftershe asked me to meet her at her church to get to know her parents.then after church we headed out.the next day.we smsed happily and stuff.and i told her i had fallen in love her.and she replied the same.but soon like 2 days later.she told me not to be so in love with her cause she may lose that feeling in a blink.i was pretty worried then..but 2 hours later she told me we should just stay friends. and that she promised her "brother" whom she met less than a month ago. that she wouldn't get into a realationship.And i keep thinking about her everyday.should i just leave her alone. and stop smsing her?or should i keep trying till she realised my feelings for her?she smsed not long.. saying that we should bear in mind we're just friends and stuff. =( it's my first time inloved.and i really hate this feeling.please advice me!i'm planning to drown myself tomorrow. =(
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reader, iloveheralot +, writes (14 June 2007):
iloveheralot is verified as being by the original poster of the question ahh.. thanks guys..
i'm still trying to get over it.
really hard. =(
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reader, Mad-Hat-Matt  +, writes (11 June 2007):
whoa whoa whoa dnt do neting tooo drastic like yea u mite love her and all bt giv it time and if its meant to b it will b hav u asked her y she changed her mind and y her brother doesnt want her to b in a relationship. Just tell her gently that she shud b happy and nt wori bout what her brother will fink and she deserves to b happy just b honest and straight down da line bt approach it gently
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2007): i know how you feel. and it sucks all i did was listen to a bunch of songs. continue being her friend and go to church show her your strong and make her fall in love with you. get close to her brother, become his buddy. sooner or later she'll be head over heels for you
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2007): i know how you feel. and it sucks all i did was listen to a bunch of songs. continue being her friend and go to church show her your strong and make her fall in love with you. get close to her brother, become his buddy. sooner or later she'll be head over heels for you
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2007): don't drown yourself how will you ever win her back then? tell her you can't help your feeling, wont mention them again if it makes he uncomfortable, ask if you can just stay friends and maybe in time she'll realise what SHE wants, hope it goes well, xx
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