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Should I go after my ex, or this new older man?

Q.   im soo confused latley. i split up with my long distance boyfriend a year ago and have been saying ever since that when i drive i am going to get him back because i think we split up because of the distance. i still love him and cant seem to get ...

A.   15 August 2007: Well i think you should dig dep down and follow ur heart like can you see urself with ur 27 year old or wiv ur ex? Its all about love and if ur willing to drive to get him bk then go for it. Love is always worth chasing after and do what you can ... (read in full...)

I can't afford to give him sweet gifts for no reason like he can! What can I do?

Q.   Hi everyone, I'm 18 years old and dating an absolutely fantastic guy. He's wonderful, treats me well, everything is great. So obviously that's not a problem. The problem is gifts and things. This guy comes from a pretty wealthy family, he work...

A.   22 June 2007: Im sure he does it cus he wants to not cus he expects something back and if you want cheap then cook a meal or but some dvd now and then even leave little notes around his house of room for him so he knows you care which im sure he does. Dont worry ... (read in full...)

After 8 months apart, he called me out of nowhere and now we're meeting up! Anyone have a similar experience? If so, what happened?

Q.   I can not believe it after 8 months apart and him finishing it with me he calls me up out of the blue, telling me how sorry he is, since then ive had loads of calls of him, im just shocked that he has got in contact after all this time. We are ...

A.   22 June 2007: well let me tell you my story. I was going out wiv my gf for 8 months then i broke up with her because i wasnt ready for a serious relationship and i wasnt sur eif i really truly loved her or not. Big Misake. We were apart for 8 months before i ... (read in full...)

Who loses their virginity to two guys?! I'm finding this hard to deal with.

Q.   I've been dating a woman for about 3 months who loves sex, and ours is great. But I just found out that she lost her virginity in a threesome with two guys who she then had multiple threesomes with after that. She was 23 at the time and is just over ...

A.   22 June 2007: Hey its in the past and i no wat you mean i found out my ex partner lost her virginity to he old partner in a threesom wiv another girl bt as it was in her past it doesnt concern you much but if you wana no more then tell her why you see negative ... (read in full...)

How do I show her that I want to fix and will fix everything that was wrong in our relationship so we can still be together?

Q.   So I need some help and advice. I have been with the same girl for three years. I met her online, and moved from Ohio to Las Vegas to be with her back in 2005 (we started dating and had a successful long term relationship at the beginning). Back in ...

A.   13 June 2007: well in my opinion the best way to find out if there is any chance of you 2 getting bak 2gether is by talking to her cook her a meal and tell her your going to do it because you need to talk and try to convince her that you want to try again because ... (read in full...)

Fallen hard for her and she just wants to be friends--stay in contact or move on?

Q.   I met this girl from friendster. we chat loads on msn. and we got along really well.. like 2 days after she asked me to meet her at her church to get to know her parents. then after church we headed out. the next day. we smsed happily an...

A.   11 June 2007: whoa whoa whoa dnt do neting tooo drastic like yea u mite love her and all bt giv it time and if its meant to b it will b hav u asked her y she changed her mind and y her brother doesnt want her to b in a relationship. Just tell her gently that she ... (read in full...)

How do I tell him to stop calling me until he's out of his marriage?

Q.   I am sort of starting to have feelings for my ex boyfriend. I have been telling him, if he really wanted to be with me, there are a lot of changes that would have to be made. And he would need to divorce his wife. He's been telling me, he's been ...

A.   11 June 2007: Just tell him he has to be told. Tell him exactly how you feel and that if he does get out of his current mariage then you will b here waiting but dnt wait forever most men say im gona get out and never do so dnt b a mug tell him to stay away until ... (read in full...)

He beat me after I cheated... can I fix this or should I leave?

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been dating for 4 months i know that doesn't sound long but in that time i cheated on him three times he found out and cheated on me i don't know how many times and beat the hell out of me then hit me a few times after the ...

A.   11 June 2007: Im sorry but its just not gona work out ya hav to get out of there cheating is something i can never condone but on top of that he is beating you and all because he is guilty.. Love listen here just leave he cant hurt yo when you arnt there and you ... (read in full...)

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