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writes:me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. i have recently moved away for uni. we both decided to delete our facebooks because they just cause so many problems, worrying about tagging in photos and worrying about who we were talking to, not knowing them etc.but recently i've found out through a friend, that he has gone and got it back.i asked him if he was happy that he'd deleted it and he said yes, so blatently he'd lied to me. yet he told my friend that he's only got it for a uni project, to talk to the people in his group. i just don't understand why he'd not tell me!i don't know what to do, i just think he's hiding something, especially after going through and deleting loads of people (that know me) help pleasee!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 February 2010):
This is over before it's even started if this facebook thing is causing trouble already.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2010): He probably thinks you would react badly so has avoided telling you. I don't personally understand your motivation for deleting the profiles. In effect you would rather be secretive about what you are doing and not want the other person to know because the other person would get jealous? That strikes me as very immature. why don't you want to see what the other person is up to, see their friends, and keep in contact with the on facebook. My bro and his gf (who are about your age) do that,and he is now good friends with her new friends too. I personally think if you can't handle seeing what you bf does at uni or vice versa on facebook, then it is not just facebook which is the cause of your problems.
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reader, lifeisshort  +, writes (27 February 2010):
If you 2 can't trust one another to have facebook pages then what's the point? A relationship without trust is doomed.
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reader, FogMontblanc +, writes (27 February 2010):
I think maybe he's just worried that you'd be upset so he's being extra cautious. He probably likes the social aspect, but he can't come to you and say "I know we said X but I went and did it anyways." Next time you two talk, tell him it's fine and remind him that he should never be worried about you or your opinions and such. Get him to realize that you're the only confidant he needs in his life and that he can tell you anything... Hope it helps...~*Fog*~
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2010): Hey Hey,Dont Be upset,Everyone has their own secrect,You should give him more big free space.let it be!Dont care about facebook that much,all things are freaks over there,that is just internet,but only you are the real one to him.Be happy and win back your confidence.sorry,i am from china,so my english is not too well to express my opinion,i hope you could understand and hold it!
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