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30-35,
*azyj
writes:hiya, i dont know whats going on with me. i am extremely happy with my boyfriend of 7 months, but i still enjoy other male attention. i really feel my bf is the one, but i enjoy others giving me comments e.g. on my myspace site, or previous interests chatting on msn. i think it has somthing to do with self esteem when i was younger, but surely id only have eyes for my guy since im so happy? he really has given me everything
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reader, sweetnsoursauce  +, writes (21 October 2007):
 there's nothing wrong with enjoying a little attention, just as long as you don't act upon that attention. if you act on it, bad things can happen, such as your guy getting jealous or angry, but go ahead and keep enjoying those little self esteem boosts :)
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (21 October 2007):
 It's fine to enjoy the attention from other men, but it would not be right to act on it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2007): I think thats something most women, young and old desire. Everyone wants to feel like their attractive, I mean yeah, you love your boyfriend and he obviously finds you attractive, but its nice still for other people to want you. It makes a girl feel powerful, special, sexy... there isn't anything abnormal about how your feeling I don't think. I wouldn't worry about it, just enjoy the attention while you have it.
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reader, 88jane +, writes (20 October 2007):
 I agree with flower girl!! theres no harm in you enjoying the attention! nobody is getting hurt by this, your boyfriend may get a bit jealous with all the attention you are receiving but as long as you are happy and you trust each other that you are not going to act on anything else then theres no harm! its nice to know that others think highly of you so just enjoy it sweetheart!
xxx
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reader, flower girl +, writes (20 October 2007):
 What women does not enjoy compliments from other men whether they are in a relationship or not, i'm very happily married and i love any attention i get from other men as it certainly gives me a confidence boast and my husband loves the fact i get male attention too, so don't worry about it just enjoy it.
Take care.xx.
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