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writes:my boyfriend lost his vehicle over 8 months ago so ive been taking him back and forth to work when he is schedule he works 10 minutes away from where we live and writes his own schedule for work when i have to be at work at 10am and my job is near his he schedule himself to be at work by 7am He wakes me up to drive him and i can never go back to sleep after i go back home and he never offers to take any other form of transportation im so exhausted what to do????
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reader, anonymous818 +, writes (14 July 2010):
i am in a similar situation. and I am exhausted of it. I literally drive my girlfriend about 70 miles a day to get her where she needs to go and i absolutely hate it. she doesnt pay for gas and she talk about if she could drive blah blah blah. NO. if hes gonna take you as a taxi then tell him to ride a bike or a bus. its only 10 mins away. and if tries to take your car dont let him because that is not fair to you its abuse of the situation.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (14 July 2010):
 Just stop. Tell him you're not a taxi. He can take a bus. He can ride a bike. He can make his schedule to match yours a bit better. He could do SO many things that don't involve being a bum. Stand up for yourself, don't let him walk all over you. You are not his cab driver. If he insists on treating you like one, you should insist on being treated like one. In other words he pays you.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (14 July 2010):
 I'm sorry. don't you think it's time for him to get some wheels of his own after 8 months? He should have saved up a LOT...... or at least he COULD have.
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