Ex is with another guy but wants to get back with me. Should I wait and say nothing or convince her to get back with me?

A male age 36-40, *DB writes:

I dated my ex for almost 2 years. I still love her to death, but as soon as we broke up, she started rebounding with someone who clearly is no good for her. To make a long story short, she said she wants to try again when her current relationship ends, whenever that may be. She told me she still has feelings for me, and she gets very jealous of me with other girls when she clearly has a bf now. Anyways, her bf basicly doesn't want us to talk at all, so its pretty much forbidden, yet we talk everyday and see each other 4 or 5 times a week. She will leave his house at nite and see me before she goes home. She's doin all this behind his back. But don't get me wrong I'm more than happy to see her. When we are together, we feel close, we don't hook up or anything, but we are very close with each other. Aside from that, she is starting to tell me all these problems that they are having, and they have only been together a lil more than a month. They already argue a lot, and he treats her like garbage. I really want to kind of push her to end it and be back with me, I just don't know what to do, and its making me crazy.

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