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writes:Can you offer any advise about dealing with your ex husband who wants your small children to know and be around his girlfriend who shows her entire naked body on internet webcam sites (porn sites)? or other stories of people who are dealing with this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2007): "What kind of a person does that"
Well, I'm not so sure you can necessarily judge someones ability to raise children by what they do to make money. I mean, it is not really ideal but she could be an an otherwise fantastic adult figure. I mean, women don't generally "choose" this kind of thing, given the option.
The only way you're going to find out is if you can meet this women. I am sure if she has an involvement in your children's lives then that is your right as their mother?
If you can, you should put your stereotypes aside, I mean getting naked on a webcam doesn't automatically mean she is part of any "nasty" world; I mean it is not really exposing your children to a risk as if she were prostituting herself at some nearby crack house. It's quite a different thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe children are under 10, boy and a girl. I have major trust issues with my ex considering this is the person he met on the internet while we were married and left me for. I would hope that they have the kids best interest at heart but I don't know that for sure b/c I have never lived that way or know anyone who has. It seems like a very nasty world and my concern is how that may effect my kids maybe not intentionally but kids are smarter than we give them credit for and regardless if she is doing it now or did it before - what kind of person does that? What would be the morals and values in that type of life that could be passed on to my children? I know I have no say over what they do with their lives - I really don't care about that part - my only concern is to protect my children. And my hope by posting this was to see if there is anyone out there that has dealt with this experience.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (30 July 2007):
 Er i wouldnt be happy about it. But how old are the children? Its not likely she will be doing it while the children are there?
Why does she wan that as a past time? How strange!
I guess what she does in the privacy of her own home is her business as long as shes not putting your children at risk?
But i dont know the full circumstances.
But from the bit you have said, if its when they are not there i would leave it be?
Prehaps speak to your ex some more about it.
C xxxxxx
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