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36-40,
anonymous
writes: I had a relationship with my ex.Ex's ex girlfriend came back.He broke up with me.I was very understanding.I moved away from his life.He has always tried to ask how I am or what I have been doing.He has also asked me if I need any monetary help.I have never ever got a single dime from him any time.He married the girl and settled down too.I am happy for him.I really am.I want to move on with my life.He keeps calling once in a while to ask "Whats up".He claims to be very lucky to have his wife.The trouble here is so why is he calling me.We had a very intense passionate relationship.I am not a person who holds grudges.I just feel that if he can't tell his wife that he is calling me its definitely wrong.I asked him to stop calling me.I told him that this calling has to stop.He has told me,"If I stop this time you will never ever hear from me again".Its all very confusing.He never flirts on the phone.He just keeps calling to check up on me.He also told me that he never wants to meet me in person. If some guys could decipher the situation,I would really appreciate it.I am done trying to analyze his behavior.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 January 2010):
He's just stringing you along in case he ever needs to have an affair. Don't be used. Change your number instead.
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