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writes:i went out with this guy for 2 years and i truely thought it was love.anyways he constantly would lie and hurt me, one night it got too much and about 2 months later i started going out with a guy ive known my whole life and we have always had a thing for each other.i am inlove with him, i know i am. :) im so happy with him but every random now and then i feel like i still love my ex :( but at the same time i dont think it is love because my new boyfriend treats me so much better. and i know i love him.whats going on?
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reader, sexi  +, writes (28 August 2007):
 Hi, it is normal seeing as you have been with your ex for 2 years. You have said that he has lied and hurt you before so dont forget that - That is why he is your ex and not your present. You have made a good decision, stick by it. In time you would stop thinking about your ex, this time would pass.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, HonningKanin  +, writes (28 August 2007):
 Its completely normal to feel that way even if the relationship was bad. You spent two years with someone and you gave them your heart and you spent a good majority of the time caring about this person. This just doesn't switch off for most people. This just shows you that you are a compassionate person and your not cold hearted.
You still care for your ex because you remember the positive about him thus you remember him fondly and even miss him. I don't truly believe people can just stop loving someone. You can stop being inlove, but not love someone and in turn you still care about him.
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