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writes:hello :D well i know im young and all that but being young is so hard! i was in a really good relationship for a year..about a year ago now. and it ended really badly :( was cheated on so many times, it was just horrible. then came along my next boyfriend about 6 months later. he was charming and lovely, completely different to the nasty one before. but he cheated on me as well. since then i have been so nervous to get close to anyone, scared at the thought that they'll treat me badly and cheat on me. then came along another boy! i knew he had a reputation but he just was so charming, we stayed out chatting till 4 in the morning one night! just kissing and talking, it was just so lovely. then i go and find out he has a girlfriend! i just dont know what to do with myself anymore :( every guy is the same, its like i have mug written on my forehead. its just i really REALLY like him! helpppppppppp
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2008): The problem is that you probably tell this guys that you have been cheated on before. When you meet somebody, don't ever mention that you have been cheated, and if they ask elude the question. I'm a guy and I know that if you want a "good guy" you must go to church and find one there, or you could find one in the library reading books, usually we're shy and boring, but trust me when I tell you once we get confortable around you everything chances for the better. However you don have to have patience because since remember a man always like to get the girl that he wants, so you have to make it seen like he's the one pick you. Try to find a lefty, people who uses their left hand are more sensitive even if they're guys. Try to find one that is strait and likes girls and you'll be happy you did.
I'm single by the way, where do you live? :) just kidding good luck.
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reader, ThatOneCroatian  +, writes (19 December 2008):
Maybe it's because you're targetting the wrong sort of guys? The muscular, jocky sort of guys that EVERY girl tends to like? I mean sure, there MIGHT be acouple good ones in the bunch (like me, haha) but those sort of guys tend to not want to settle down. You're young, things change as you get older and as the guys learn to not be so ridiculously stupid.
So I'd say that my advice to you is to wait. See what happens, and take your time in deciding who you want to date. Pick a good, nice guy. Trust me.. they're not really that hard to find.
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