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writes:ok so i have a best friend. we are both girls, but i realizes that i feel "different" around her. i like her a lot and we talked about it. she likes me to. this weekend at a sleepover we ended up holding hands and she fell asleep in my arms. we can both say it was great and we both feel the same way. after that i asked her if we could ever start dating and she claims she isn't ready to take the next step. we flirt a lot online, but now, and at school its really akward. i feel as if im being avoided and im so confuzed. what does this mean? is it just akward? or does she just not feel anything? what should i do?
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reader, Zoe-louisexx  +, writes (1 April 2010):
 This would be a big step for her if no one but you knows that she likes girls too. give her time and she will tell you how she feels or will let you know in simmilar ways. Maybe try talking to her on online and tell her how you feel but try not to pressure her too much. :)x
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (31 March 2010):
 I think she is nervous about actually being with a girl and needs some time to work things out for herself without external pressures. Its a big step and i'm sure she has feelings for you but it'll take some time before she may want everyone else to know this. Give her time and space and she'll come find you when she is ready.
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