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female
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41-50,
*ennefer30
writes:After an on of relationship of 4 years my boyfriend and I broke up. Because he could not decide weather he wants me or not I decided to break contact as much as possible (we share lots of friends). He told evebody how I could not move on and that it is my fault that he could not meet someone new.I started seeing someone else the past 3 months and my ex came to know that. I try my best to keep my new realtionship private. But news travels.A friend told me last week that it is not going well with my ex and that he admits to have made a mistake.Last night I get a phone call from a girl friend of mine (who as far as I knew never met my ex) asking me if it is alright with me if she goes with my ex to a wedding (im going too, but alone as my bf is out of country). She stressed that although she has seen my ex weekly since they`ve met 3 weeks ago that the are not dating. She also asked what she can do to make it better or more comefortable. She also noted that my ex does not know she knows me.Although I am very happy in my new realtionship, this phonecall makes me very uncomfortable. For some reason a envy her for having contact with my ex. I also am very scared that he is going to use this upcomming wedding to make me jelous...And I am walking into the lion`s mouth wide eyed.What must a make of thisWhat can i expect
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (12 October 2009):
Just keep remembering that you with a new, better guy now. It soounds like he's trying to worm hs way back into your life. But he really isn't a great guy if he said that it's your fault he can't move on, and he couldn't decide how he felt. He's not worth bothering about. The best thing to do is to go to the wedding, say nothing to him and just enjoy the wedding. Don't go falling for him again, because you'll just get hurt.
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