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anonymous
writes:Hi, my problem is that during the past week or so, my girlfriend becomes dry during sex. I asked her why this is happening and she said she doesn't know. She says it isn't me.... but if it is then i doubt she would tell me. Its kind of awkward, I'm really confused, she says it may be because she orgasms too fast, and i take too long and so she doesnt stay wet for long enough?Should i take comfort in the fact that she gets wet, and just ignore this problem and hope it goes away? Or is it something more sinister? I.e she doesn't find me attractive anymore? Thanks
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reader, bebe girlie  +, writes (3 August 2008):
Hi
How are you? While Having sex with my husband I sometimes get dry too but that doesnt mean Im not attracted to him...Its just that either im tired from constant intercourse or i orgasim before he does and the leaves me dry...i guess its a common problem between girls.. i always use lubricators... they help me alot with my dryness..
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reader, lexilou +, writes (3 August 2008):
 Excuse my terrible spelling on that answer, i blame the wine!
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reader, louxxlouxx + ♥, writes (3 August 2008):
 Focus more time on foreplay and this should help. Don't worry it isn't you, like lexilou says a lot if not all women have varying levels of "wetness", the human body is a strange thing! It could be that she is stressed about something else and that is interfering with it but I honestly think it is just an uncontrollable thing right now.
Try not to put too much emphasis on the situation but I do think you should maybe have a chat and ask what kinda things she would like you to do when you are getting intimate. Maybe try some new things and spice up your sex life a little bit and that could help things along.
Try not to worry, this is prob a temporary thing, but there's no harm in adding a little more excitement to your sex life regardless of things like this x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008): Don't take this personally. We ladies go through some phases but that doesn't mean we are not attracted to our man. There are some lubricant that can help her during those dry spell. We woman gets dry fast after orgasm or when the man takes too long, but that's ok. Lubricant to the rescue...
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reader, lexilou +, writes (3 August 2008):
It maybe that she is due her period women often get dryer at different times of the month. Sometimes I dont get wet quickly but other times its the opposite problem. DOnt take it personally x
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