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writes:BROKEN HEARTED OAP My partner of 4 years has just dumped me by text. He is a builder and we have had an up and down relationship. He has done work for me and I have paid him for it. Mates rate, which I thought was only fair. Unfortunately his work was not that good; and my youngest daughter said he was a bodger (Not to his face though). She reckoned that I was a cash cow and that because he thought I had plenty of money. He dumped me because my youngest daughter did some gardening for me that he wanted to do. I did not ask her to do it and I was not pleased about it, she did it while I was on holiday. So I had no knowledge of it, she dug up some lovely plants. I was not pleased but she was trying to make the garden a bit easier for me, so it was a good deed. Because of this he has finished with me he says I am ruled by my children. My daughter says he is miffed that he wanted the job that she did for nothing. He has just come back from a six week holiday and I had booked a 3 day holiday myself with my other daughter and that was wrong too. I love him and it hurts me but enough is enough how many times must he hurt me before I realise how wrong this is it is not love.. advice please
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2023): Why is he even charging you for this work? He should want to do things for you because you are his girlfriend. You deserve a man that will want to do things for you out of the kindness of his heart. Im sorry your heartbroken but its his loss not yours.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2023): Of course he had a six week holiday, you pay for his holidays every time you pay him to do rubbish "work" for you.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (11 May 2023):
 OP, you can do better.
If he is expecting YOU (his partner) to give him jobs and pay him but he doesn't do a good job then he is delusional.
Why can he go on holiday for 6 weeks but you can not go away for 3?
Block his number, then delete it. Move on.
Have a chat with your daughter about not doing yard work and removing plants without asking you in the future.
He sounds like a user, OP
Sorry, you feel heartbroken.
Someone who can dump a partner of 4 years over text doesn't care about you.
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