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Due to her being away we can only talk until she returns in September. How can I get her off my mind while she's away?

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Question - (11 July 2015) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 July 2015)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I recently went on a few dates with a girl I like. She is going away for two months and agreed we could pick up where we left off in September.

I told her the long hiatus would be difficult for me, and she agreed we could talk over this time.

I know I'm more interested than she is, but there is definite potential there and I am willing to wait.

I guess I just need some advice going forward. How can I avoid thinking about her too much, and what would a healthy level of communication be?

I have a lot going on in my life currently and have to focus on work and avoid being too caught up in this.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2015):

Just don't be coming on too strong, you haven't known each other all that long so actually talking every day would be over the top. Why not message/email every 3-4 days and call her every fortnight? Then you will.actually have substantial things to talk about with each other.

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