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female
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22-25,
anonymous
writes:Hello! I've been with my bf for a year and a half and recently we hung out.. And like he asked why I didn't give him a handjob? And like we've had sex a few times and I have given him blowjobs too.. I gave a handjob like twice? But like it wasn't that good.. Because I'm inexperienced on that.. And so I thought he didn't really like it because I couldn't make him cum etc.. So we were talking about our amazing day out and he came to the topic of handjobs and he said that I don't ever give him one and I told him I was afraid that you wouldn't like it considering I wasn't very successful at the last few attempts.. But what I'm wondering is, why does handjobs seem so important? It's like all of a sudden he's totally not in the mood because of the fact I didn't give him a handjob... And like come on, I had sex with him and blowjobs too.. And he loves that.. But whenever I can't do a proper handjob for him, he kinda like mocks me I guess about it? What do I do? Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2015): Kylar's suggestions are very good, but I just wanted to add- maybe your boyfriend is just really into handjobs?
If he mocks you at all about anything sexual I would tell him that it turns you off and makes you less likely to want to please him. Communication about sex is very good but mocking is not.
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