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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:When I was around 13 years old, I got together with my first real boyfriend "A". We dated on and off for over 2 years. He was my first love. Then I moved. But guy "A" got back in touch with me. We had a long distance relationship for about a year. When we first got together he would call me names and punch me when he got mad (not hard though). Then while we were doing the long distance thing, he would break up with me every other week. (when he found a new girl to mess with). I broke it off finally and I got with another guy (guy "B") about a year later and he is great. We've been together for over a year and a half and he is very respectful and would do anything for me. I really do love him. But he is a little controlling. Another thing, I can't stop thinking about guy "A". He told me that he was really sorry and wishes he had treated me better. He says he still loves me and would do anything for one last chance. But he lives like 10 hours away. And I really don't want to risk losing guy "B". But just thinking about guy "A" gives me butterflies and I no longer have that with guy "B". Guy "A's" sister was always my best friend, and she says me and him were just right for eachother and she thinks I should give him another chance. But guy "B" is just so special, I dont want to lose him. I don't know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009): Dear A female age 18-21, anonymous,This situation sounds very complicated! Even though guy A says he wants to get back with you and he's sorry for what he's done to you in the past, I've heard about men like this before. They say they are sorry and want to give it another go, but they just turn out the same way they were before. And he may hit you again. The distance is another reason it may not be a good idea to get back together. If you say you really love guy B and he treats you well, I think it is best if you stay with him. At least then, you know he will love you, take care of you and will not hurt you. I don't want to make up your mind for you, but I hope this advice has helped you to do it yourself. Good luck!
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