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writes: hi i am a man of 33 since my girl friend left me. i have been drawn to gay men. and i have also dreamed about them as well. i went to my first gay bar last week and got chatted up. he touch me down there and i touched him back. also kissed me and i kissed him back. does this mean that i am gay? Reply to this Question
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reader, lboy  +, writes (26 September 2006):
 hi, i don't think that you are fully gay if you just got out of a long relationship, there is a chance that you may have just been looking for comfort and your mind turned you to man or your subconcious was looking for reasons as to why your GF would dump you and let you to the conclusion that you may be gay. however if you enjoyed what happened that night then there is a chance that you are gay or bisexual try it again and see or if the idea of it offends you then you may not be gay.
good luck
lboy
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reader, seamus +, writes (18 July 2006):
It could mean your gay, Or bisexual. It could be that after a hetrosexual relationship in which your partner left you that you just want something different. Maybe your afraiid of meeting a girl and going down the same road again.Don't fret too much over this, Just listen to your heart.
what ever you do, Be careful. I myself am straight but I would think the gay scene can be hazardess for a newcomer who is unsure of themselves. Don't let anyone take advantage of you and if something does happen use protection.
Just some questions to ask yourself,
1: Could you see yourself in a relationship with a man?
2: Or is it just the sex and the fact that it's different the appealling part? If your answer is yes to the first question then your probably gay, If i'ts yes to the second then I would say your bi.
I have a friend who is straight who told me he fantasises about transexuals. He recently had sex with one in amsterdam and he says the reality was not at all like the fantasy and he no longer dreams of sex with transexuals. Goes to show you never know untill you try. Again friend Just be safe! Good luck
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reader, Martyrmachine +, writes (17 July 2006):
 most likely bisexual, unless you were drunk
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