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Does sleeping around mean a man is not happy in his marriage?

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Question - (20 October 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 21 October 2009)
A female South Africa age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Can anybody tell me, can a married man who sleeps around still be happily married. Or does his sleeping around automatically mean that he is not happy in his marriage?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009):

All it means is that he's a cheat.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009):

are you trying to help him analyse why he cheates (while he is cheating on his wife and you cheating on your hb). have you not hear about shrink /patient relationships. a shrink shouldn't do his patient.

i think you want to take on the role of his conscious/ his saviour. i am still laughing at this. after all you to are now soooooooooo close and you both are cheating on your spouses with each other. what are you really trying to achive.

a serial cheater cheats becasue he wants to, because he can. no woman, NOT EVEN YOU will make him keep his dick in his pants. as long as he breathes, his dick will be working on whoever or whatever he can fuck!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (20 October 2009):

Well the truth is, of he's a serial cheater, all he's interested in is sex. Nothing else.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009):

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Well, it's not my husband I am talking about. It is this other man I know. We are growing quite close and he is a serial cheater. He was separated from his wife for a couple of weeks a few years back. I'm trying to figure out why he is cheating and if he is really happy. He has had to move (to different towns) a couple of times because of this problem. I really want to help him figure out why he is doing it, but I don't know if he will be honest about being unhappy in his marriage.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (20 October 2009):

The truth is, a guy who is happy and trustworthy wouldn't cheat. You can't blame yourself here, because he's the one cheating. Instead, ask him why he's doing it.

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