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Does size really matter?

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Question - (3 June 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 June 2010)
A male Australia age , anonymous writes:

Hi

my new parter in life was married for 25 years to a very nice guy. for many reasons her marrage broke down like mine. we met almost 2 years ago on on the very first night we made love it was a disaster. the main reason was she was, what i thought that wet and hornie she couldn't feel me when she was on top, which was the way she had been used too. durning our first few times we tried many different ways and found that doggy was the best and she liked it.

over the past 2 years it as come out that her x was very big and think and she found it best with him laying on top as when he did it doggy she couldn't take him all or when she gave him a bj it was hard for her to fit him in her mouth. in the early days i found these a great turn on but a time a passed i am unsure as to whether she realy does like big guys as when we resently watched a porno with that she picked it was guys with very big xxxxx.

i am normal 7 inch but not as thick as her x, she say i do it for her but i am note sure. anyone any thought as to what i should ask.

also as she is quite large down there could that be 25 years of her x doing her with his big xxxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010):

If you are only 7 inches then there is no way you will ever be able to satisfy her. Mine is double that size (14 inches) and even then, of the 70-80 women I sleep with every week, about 98% of them are totally dissatisfied with its size, and look at it distinctly unimpressed as if to say 'what the **** is that?' Many many surveys have indicated that the average woman prefers AT LEAST 20 inches in a man. Your wife is probably no different. Especially after, as you put it, '25 years of her x doing her with his big xxxx'.

If you are not a troll then I apologise and take back everything I've just said.

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A male reader, womenrcrazy United States +, writes (3 June 2010):

its not all about sex. i wouldnt worry about that crap. if you love her and she loves you it will work.

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A female reader, Empressjai United Kingdom +, writes (3 June 2010):

Empressjai agony auntIf she says that she is satisfied with you sexually i think you should listen to her. What it looks like is that your insecurities over your size is coming to the surface and making you feel inadequate in comparison to her x. This insecurity will have the strength and the power to ruin your sex life and this in turn will cause conflict between the two of you. Why are you so unsure that you cannot satisfy her. If the vagina can can accommodate the head of a baby and snap back into shape it will do the same to various size penises. I think you should enjoy your sex life with your girlfriend and stop obsessing over the size of your penis. Think about it before she couldnt enjoy a bj or doggy but now she can with you. Why look for problems where none seem to exist?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010):

if you are really 7" that is ample enough for any female so stop doubting yourself and start enjoying your relationship. most caucasian women's preferance is between 6" to 7".

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