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*hSoConfused
writes:Okay, so my best friend for the past year and a half is a girl. I have always liked her. I see her everyday. We carpool after school and do all the same clubs. Sometimes she will grab my arm and drag me places. Sometimes she will do it when her hands are cold. Recently I sang for an audience and she came for no reason and wasted her night for my 3 minute song. Does she want to be more than friends?
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reader, 0hSoConfused +, writes (24 September 2010):
0hSoConfused is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk late update. She tells me to not let anyone take me away or ask me out. She claims she will hint me and i will find out. She also said the answer is a feeling and a hint is "me". I dont want to ask her out if she just wants to be friends. help
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reader, xanthic +, writes (16 September 2010):
 Compliment her on something specific, whether it be what she's wearing or something she said or did. Do this a few times, and make sure it's sincere. It shows you're paying attention, which most women would interpret as interest when coming from a straight male friend.
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reader, 0hSoConfused +, writes (15 September 2010):
0hSoConfused is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys. Most say I should hint or bring it up casually. How do I hint?
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reader, xanthic +, writes (15 September 2010):
There's no way of really knowing unless you ask her by bringing it up casually, so she doesn't feel put on the spot.
She obviously cares about you, but she might just be the friendly, loyal and affectionate type. Don't take it to mean more than that if you don't have definite proof, i.e. her hinting at something beyond friendship.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (15 September 2010):
 Either that or she just really likes being your best friend. Just tell her how you feel and see where it goes from there. I'm pretty sure she's just being a good friend though.
I hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2010): I think this is where the "What do you think of me as?" Question will come into play. Ask her that, and ask, "Do you like/love me in anyway? Please, don't be afraid to say if you do love me."
Personally, she must like you to a certain extent, because she's leaving hints that she likes you! You could ask her for a hug, or if it's not a public area, spread your arms out, and she'll know it's a hug (she should, =p).
Now, when it comes to dating, unless you are going to be 16 anytime soon, this is not a good time to be dating. For now, just remain extremely close friends.
That is usually the question that takes one step up a ladder, or a fall down into a pit of despair (if she means something to you).
~The Modern Phantom of the Opera
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