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writes:I need help I'm trying to get over my ex! I have relapsed 2 times now I'm trying to not go 2 weeks without talking to him then end up seeing him again.I know he's no good for me I just feel alone and need some company and see him. I would think I could handle it but I can't! I want him out of my life!!! He's toxic to me. What can I do! Please help me I even changed my number but he has called my friends phone. I wanna call him!!!
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reader, powderedheart  +, writes (23 April 2008):
hi,i've had that same issue before, and as much as i knew in my head that he was wrong for me, i just couldn't. just as i thought i got out, he pulled me back in, heehee. how i got over it, really, was time. time will do wonders, and you have to really want it, you have to want to be free from him, you already know that he's wrong for you, but that isn't enough to get over someone you probably still have feelings for. Cut him off as much as you can, as you've already done, and just try to focus on yourself. i know that's really hard, but, you know he's wrong. so that's the first step, and the next is probably time. good luck.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (20 April 2008):
 Think of all his bad habits and demonized him..
You will puked when you think of his name.
Your brain will reject him when continuously fed this message.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): Hi Hunny
Think about how toxic he is for you everytime you go to pick up the phone, Talk to yourself in a possitive way tell yourself over and over again "HE IS NO GOOD FOR ME"!!!!! find some hobbies keep fit, yoga, write lots of answers for dear cupid!!!!!!That way you wont have time to call him. GIVE YOUR MOBILE TO SOMEONE FOR A SHORT PERIOD OF TIME SO YOU CANT PHONE! Think of you I no your feeling lonely hunny and you will do for awhile so fill your day with things to do and when you catch yourself wanting to pick up that phone...SCREAM NO!!!!!!Have faith in you to be the strongest you have ever been, Send me a message when you want to phone and I'll say NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!You want him out of your life sweetheart keep thinking that way and be strong you can do it love.....TAKE CARE OF YOU AND DONT PHONE!!!!!! WITH LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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