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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello all. Wanted your opinions from female point of view. I had a troubled relationship with a girl which was very passionate. We are now back in contact months later via text although dont see each other in person except in the gym on occassions when she ignores me and looks like she is panicking/anxious.Now she blows hot and cold. I think its love hate. We met up a couple of weeks ago for the first time in 9 months to go out for dinner drinks and catch up no strings and got on so well. We were in bed within 20 mins again. Fell out again a day later as if she hates me again? She says its her and she doesnt know what to do with her life. This cycle continues. I think she is mentally unbalanced. I know its impossible to tell whats going on in someones head but for someone to love and hate like this i guess there are strong emotions going on in her.What do you guys make on someones mindset that makes them behave like this? I'm ok by the way just a bit confused. She knows im there for her and has told me she doesnt deserve me. Any females shed some light to her manic behaviour?Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008): Yes she was in a relationship that she was not happy in when we started seeing each other. She couldn't end it as she feels so bad about him. Thats why i ended it. They have now split up but he carnt let go and still comes to visit etc as it was long term. Think me being back and the feelings still strong after all this time has confused her too. Just trying to give her space be understanding at the mo as i dont want to cause her more pressure although she wont tell me how she feels i dont think she needs to. It's obvious the attraction is as strong as ever and wont go away but her actions to me indicate she doesn't know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008): well i think theres somthing going on that u dont kno about not like shes seeing someone else but somthing to coze her low self asteam. instead of trying to get back with her try to help her with w/e problem she has. Just make sure u always tell her how beautiful she is.DONT cuz more drama for her by puting her on the spot asking her how she feels tords u cuz she might not no just yet or maybe she has bigger things on her mind good luck and i wish u the best:]
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