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male
age
41-50,
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writes:I have girl 8 years older than me and we are planning getting married but I don't know if she truly loves me because too many times she is only polite only when we are having sex and after she is just being much of herself and not doing the things she says but she is urging me to get married to her, I forgot to mention she is so much richer than I am too. What should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (17 October 2008):
 I am going to need some more information and clarification here. What do you mean that she is only polite when you are having sex? And please explain what you mean by 'she is being much of herself and not doing the things she says'. From the little bit here it does seem very strange, but I really need more information. How long have you been together?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008): Well, this could open up a lot of things. Has she been married before? If not, perhaps she is getting older and afraid of being alone. I don't think you should assume that she doesn't love you. And her having more money definetely means she's not marrying your for money. But if you are having doubts, don't rush into this marriage. Why don't you try to have a heart to heart with her and gently approach this subject. Ask her why she tells you things and doesn't follow through? I strongly advise you not to marry if you have these doubts ok? Take things slowly, because obviously you aren't 100% sure of what is going on. Good luck!
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