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*OVE_GURU
writes:I was in love with the married women, who is working in my office. We were having a good relationship for the last 4 years and treating her like my wife.For the last eight months we were not having physical relations, as I was told by some priest that it's not good for my girlfriend's married life to do sex in a day time and more over I had to suffer my work for giving her time in the working hours. so sacriffies my sexual need.I had just came to know that my girlfriend is involved with some other guy. She didn't tell me about this but said that she doesn't have any feeling for me now. The same thing has happened a few years back when we were not physically intracting, and were not giving time to each other. She was involved with a lower level person, who has harrassed her after their breakup. That time she has told her husband for the same, and they were gone through very bad time. She promises her husband and me not to repeat this type of mistake ever in her life. Now She is doing the same.The problem is that she is handling almost all the work in my office. I am not able to find out the basic problem, whether this is just an emotional inscurity of that woman, or this her body need that neither her husband nor her boy friend (me) able to satisfy. I'm very emotional for her and don't want to do any thing wrong for her. Please help me to solve this puzzle of my life, I 'll be very much thankful.
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reader, InterCntlCHmp  +, writes (23 October 2008):
Buddy I've been in a very similar situation. TRUST ME STAY AWAY FROM HER!!!!! This girl is trouble man she's been trouble since she was a kid; cut her off completely and save yourself the future STD tests.She probably likes girls all these years and can't come out so she fucks around with different dudes to figure her life out. Does she drink a lot???
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008): It doesn't sound like she's very happy in her married life, the way she's going with different men, and there's nothing you can do to alter that.
You would be much better to stay clear of her. She's potential trouble. let her get on with however she wants to lead her life and you get on with yours. just don't mix the two.
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reader, LOVE_GURU +, writes (17 October 2008):
LOVE_GURU is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDear concerned personsLet me thank you from the bottom of my heart for spare your valuable time and let me clear the question. ie, I'm sure that her husband doesn't know about any of her affairs. That is why she is carefree and doing this. Now my feeling to her is changed and I only want her to happy in her married life. I cannot tolerate her relationship with anyone else except her husband. Even I don't want to continue with my intimate relationship with her. I just wanna treat her as a good friend. As she is my subordinate, she hasn't changed her attitude towards me till date. She gave me the same respect and tries to pretend everything is normal to me.I just want to ask that she is getting involve with the other person because of her emotional insecurity with her Husband and ignorance(physically) from me. It could be that she just wants to get physical with diffrent persons.Plz advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008): There is no puzzle... She is married, and now her husband has found out about you and her other boyfriend as well... Puzzles are fun things, they make us happy. She is a strange one. Leave her and her husband alone. She's far too busy to be with anyone else right now. She is married and her husband doesn't like you, and he doesn't like her other boyfriend. What more is there for you to understand
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008): If you were treating her like your wife I'm not surprised she's walked. No work colleague should ever be expected to do another colleague's vacuuming, cleaning, washing, ironing, cooking and getting your beer from the fridge in the evening while you sit in front of the television with your feet up.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (17 October 2008):
 Okay....what?
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