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*ierani417
writes:Okay so no criticism please. I have a couple of questions here. First, I'm on my period so I had a tampon in, but me and my boyfriend sort of had anal, but it was mostly just him rubbing his penis on my butt, but I could feel that there was precum. I'm afraid maybe it somehow could have gotten me pregnant. Since I'm on my period now, I won't be able to take a test for a while. I also wondered if the tampon would make it harder for sperm to even get to my uterus. Second, does precum even have anything In it if he hasn't came in 24 hours and he's gone to the bathroom since then because I read that there's no sperm in it. So please help, and no criticism. Thanks:)
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reader, chloebabeechick +, writes (13 December 2010):
 You are very welcome! Glad to see you are taking care of yourself, keep up the good work! :)
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reader, tierani417 +, writes (13 December 2010):
tierani417 is verified as being by the original poster of the question chloebabeechick thank u ur answer was by far the best and least rude. I am on birthcontrol and use condoms when I have vaginal sex so I've been to the doctor and all that for all the rest of you to know that too. I jus wasn't very consistant on the pill but I've gotten better about it. Thanks again chloebabeechick
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reader, chloebabeechick +, writes (6 December 2010):
It's very, very unlikely you are pregnant and you need to stop obsessing. 1. Pre-ejaculate does not have sperm in it unless he recently ejaculated and did not urinate. That myth needs to die there is research on the matter now. 2. He did not penetrate your vagina. 3. You are on your period, and ovulating is pretty unlikely. 4. You had a barrier in there to boot. I know people want to frighten you because you are young and getting pregnant would be a horrible thing, but you need to understand how people can actually get pregnant. Now if you are looking to actually engage in penetrative sex, then you should talk to a counselor/doctor/trusted adult about birth control and condoms. Be prepared and be knowledgeable. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2010): while most people are not fertile while on their period, you can still ovulate at any time without any way of knowing.
There IS sperm in precum, and sperm can live outside the vagina and penis for a period of time as well.
A tampon is in no way any help of contraception, you are terribly wrong there. It doesn't matter how long it's been since he's had an ejaculation, there is STILL sperm in precum, it may be less, but it's less than the usual couple million in an ejaculation. All it takes is ONE sperm to get that egg fertilized.
You should use condoms or talk to your doctor about birth control.
It is not likely if you did anal that you are pregnant, but you should not have vaginal intercourse without a condom or some other contraception method. The calendar method or the "period" method or the withdrawal method are extremely unreliable and you are just playing russian roulette with your life and your chances at motherhood there.
Best of luck. I am not being critical, just stating facts.
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reader, tierani417 +, writes (5 December 2010):
tierani417 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk thank you, I know we shouldve used a condom, but I know I don't have an STD from him because I was his first and I'm all clear. And he only went in once and I found it uncomfortable so we stopped but he rubbed around it for awhile. We had never done it before. But once again, thanks!
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reader, Odds +, writes (5 December 2010):
 Yes, it's possible for some sperm to be in precum.
With that said, the situation you describe makes it extremely unlikely that you've gotten pregnant. He didn't go in your vagina, you had a tampon in, you weren't on your fertile phase, you're almost definitely fine.
With that said, anal is a very effective way to transmit VD, so he really should use a condom if you're going to be doing that.
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