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30-35,
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writes:There's a uni lecturer at university, he treat's me different to all the other students. We are both asian so possible he see's me as a daughter but i'm not sure.i am about to finish university in 1month, he is 45. We do have a good working relationship, when i feel down or pressured about uni i can call him but i don't always.Once when i was crying he told me to come to his office, he put his hand around my ear/side of my face. was that as a daughter or more?The other day he asked my uni friend to tell me he needs to talk to me. He wanted some help on identifying some studentsJokingly i said what do i get in return, a A? he looked down shy whilst smiling, slowly looked up made eye contact and said a reference with a grin on his face. He told me to come to his office late to pick out those girls.Then i saw him when he was leaving, he kept the door 2inches wide and was staring at me smiling for about 1minute, but i just didn't look back.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (30 May 2012):
 OK.... on that... but I stand by my last sentence....
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno, we were in the lecture hall he was leaving the hall there was no catch or no other female...
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (30 May 2012):
Relative to your last paragraph.....
I'm guessing that he had one of those other "catches" in his office - hence, he didn't open the door wide - and you arrived unannounced and interrupted something that you really don't want to know about....
Prof/student "relationships" aren't very good arrangements...
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