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writes: HiIm 13 and my bf 16, he takes drugs and i want to tell him how i feel about them and him taking them but every time i bring the subject up he says im having a go at him. I want him to realise i love him and i hate him doing drugs but wit out him saying im having a go at him. please helpx
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (4 January 2007):
 Tell him that you love him and you are so worried to have him doing drugs! You don't want to be a nag about it, but you love him and want him to cease using the drugs! Don't tell him if he don't you will leave him!
Good luck!!
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reader, scared16 +, writes (17 December 2006):
 if it takes having an arguement to sort this out then u need 2 do it. if he loves you he will stay will with u no matter wot happens. perhaps u shudn tell him he has to stop completely. my bf used 2 take drugs n i didn like it so i ask him 2 gradually cut down n not 2 do it wen he woz seeing me. now he doesn do them at all. hope tha helps? x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2006): just tell him how you feel
start the convo with something else and slowly go in to it
if you really like him you have to help him
if he really likes you he'll understand that your just trying to help hi
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2006): Hey
first of all he is too old for you and you to young to be in love but it sounds like you have been together for a long time and you like him a lot! so the last thing you want to do is saying stuff like "stop doing drugs or i'll leave you" i have been down that road and he end up leaveing me. Also, leaveing him would make things worse and he needs suporrt and your just the person to give it.
i"m proud of you for not getting in that stuff! even though he does! You gotta put you foot down and tell him "i dont want you killing yourself like this, i love you and i dont want you to end up doing some thing you regret or worse hurting yourself and if you love me like you say you do you will quit" i really hope it works
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