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Does my friend say these things to me to try and get a reaction?

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Question - (8 July 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 July 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi i've got this friend whom everytime she goes out with her friends from work she always comes back to tell me about guys she got off with.

now we've never really gone out clubbing much together because i'm not one for that i did go recently and i enjoyed it but it was with my other friends whom i get on well with and feel great around partly because they were all boys and my best mates girlfriend was there we went out for her to cheer her up so i said i'd go i wasn't really wanting to but i said i would because it was for her :)

anyways i really enjoyed it and i think it's right it's the company you're with not the places you go.

well anyways i'm not that confident i am but i could be better i guess and i've never kissed guy properly been too shy had chances but never done that.

anyways my friend she went out alot recently she never normally does but now when she does she gets off with guys and then starts telling me about it and really rubbing it in my face, i sometimes think to myself maybe she does it to make me jealous.

but i'm not jealous because i think i'd rather kiss someone i know i'll be with than some randomer.

e.g. she went to town with her mate and her mates friend and boyfriend and she got off with this guy she said he just started kissing her and she didn't like it but didn't pull away i was like but why not? you would if you didn't want to be kissed right? she kept calling him ugly and stuff and i thought she loves the attention he's paying her?

then another guy she kept telling me how they got off with eachother blah blah that went down the pan he's got 2 kids still loves his ex so on and so forth then the other day she said this guy that her and her workmates decided to sit by just pulled her and kissed her and he did it again and the her mates were like he's got a girlfriend and she was like not my problem and she just acts like she doesn't want it to happen but i think she actually loves the attention.

so my question is do you think she tells me like over and over again to get a reaction out of me because i've not kissed anyone yet?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2009):

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thank you Klara :) appreciate it.

i mean i get attention from guys but for the right reason now because i just make out with them.

i've been told i am sweet so perhaps you're right and she is jealous of me she denies that she's jealous of anyone but i think we all are jealous of someone at some point :)

thank you again :)

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