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30-35,
anonymous
writes:ive met a guy who ive gone on about 4 dates with. he seems to like me..but my only problem is i cant really work him out. im always the one that has to initiate text conversations and ask him 0ut on dates..but when i do hes always really sweet and never lets me down. he hints that he wants a relationship ( he been single for nearly a year and hes not known to be a player)and he always says things like 'next time i see you..', suggesting he wants to see me again, but he never asks, i have to. also he always trys to get me to come out when he goes on nights out with his mates and his mates all tell me what a good guy he is. he seems like my ideal guy and i like him. i just need advice on what you think he may want from this. does he want a relationship or is he just playing me around? he waited ages before we slept together, and i was the one who initiated that as well so he seems to respect me. thanks for listening.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2008): I agree with both replies.... I am in the same situation with a guy. I hate being the one to initiate everything and so I stopped and decided to see if he would make a move... its been a week...he hasn't talked to me and neither have i... if he was really into me, he would have said something by now... its just hard for us on the other end to face the truth sometimes because we only see the good in that person and we just keep hoping they change for us... hoped that help.. good luck girl :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2008): i'm kinda in this situation myself, except i'm on the receiving end. so let me tell you this guy's side of the story.
i don't want a relationship with this girl. in fact, i've refused her offers for sex because it would be for the wrong reasons. she always initiates text conversations and asks me to come over or go out. and i enjoy spending time with her from time to time, but it's nothing to stop traffic over. i have a good time, but there isn't enough in common to form a relationship.
so if you don't want to be used or merely tolerated, cut the cord and look elsewhere.
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reader, boo22 +, writes (24 November 2008):
 Hi honey,if you want to know where you stand with him its easy to find out. Next time you see him say i've really enjoyed myself blah blah but i'm leaving the ball in your court this time and see what he does. Put the spotlight on him and see if he gets in touch with you. If you keep being the persuer you'll never know where you stand, good luck x
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