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writes:I'm always really nervous with new guys because i don't wanna be used as a hook up. Anyway, I started seeing someone a few times now for coffees, dinner/drinks etc. twice now we've ended up at my place and he's stayed four hours or more each time watching tv and talking. Twice now he's ended up laying around cuddling me and telling me how he hasn't been this wrapped in anyone for a long time, he stares at my eyes and pulls me in really close, it's nice. He hasn't made a move past hugging, but compliments always make me feel like I'm being buttered up.Does it sound like he wants a relationship Or a hook up? Reply to this Question
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (14 November 2015):
Enjoy your friendship with this man and take things in a slow fashion.Time and only time will tell if either you or this man want a relationship.Its important to establish a frienship first and see where it goes from there.In the meantime you can learn a lot about him.Best luck.NORA B.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (13 November 2015):
 If it's 'Nice', then go with the flow. Play your cards one at a time. Don't go all in at the start. Take a good look at what's on offer and what's being asked.
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