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writes:ive never given my boyfriend a handjob. does he need to wear a condom and do we kiss while im doing it? help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): condoms arent nessacery but if the lad has a large cumshot then one may be used to keep mess to a minumum - a condom can reduce the friction though + it can also reduce the sensation for the lad , its up to you though depending on whether ether of you have one on you and where you are .
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (25 September 2007):
 He doesn't have to wear a condom, but it woudld mean less mess to worry about!
The best technique for a hand job is to get some baby lotion or oil, put a little in your hand, and away you go! It will feel amazing for him, trust me! Just make sure you don't have sex if you use condoms afterwards as the lotion will ruin the condom!
You can kiss if you want, it might put your concentration off, once you get into the flow, you will naturally kiss or whatever. It will probably make the feeling more intense for him if you do kiss :o)
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reader, gingertiger001 +, writes (25 September 2007):
you can kiss if you want to
why don't you ask him what he want's you to do?
Best thing is to put a tiny bit of lubricant on your hand and on his penis and start off like that.
he might want to kiss or play with you or have you play with his perineum (the small space between his anus and balls) and if you rub this while giving him a "handjob" it will really stimulate him.
ask him he will tell you what he wants and when it comes you your turn you can then tell him what works best for you: opening up an honest and open sex life and you'll always get what you both want :oD
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (25 September 2007):
 well, it's all down to preference really.
some guys prefer to wear a condom so they don't cum everywhere but there's nothing wrong with not wearing one as long as you wash hands right after.
and yeah, kissing is a turn on to some guys so it's always nice ti kiss them but not essential.
take and care (and always use protection in intercourse - when you get there!)
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