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writes: Does he love me. Wants threesome other women
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reader, Dionee'  +, writes (31 July 2014):
 He wants a threesome because it may be fantasy of his and its something he wants to experience. Like already mentioned a few times here, if he hasn't convinced you of his love to the point where you're actually here asking this question then perhaps he doesn't love you. If the threesome is something that you don't want (which we can tell you probably don't want to get involved in) then don't do it. Just say no and if you aren't convinced that he loves you then perhaps it would be good to stop wasting your time with this particular partner. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2014): He may love you, but he is not satisfied with ONLY you - sexually, anyway. I believe there is a difference between sexually experimenting and a threesome because, whilst both may involve love, sexually experimenting includes only the two of you and you are enough for each other with some kinky things thrown in. However, a threesome is basically "you, alone, are not enough for me sexually sometimes". For some people it can work, but it doesn't for most.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2014): You don't have faith in his feelings for you, so he hasn't convinced you up to this point. If he really loved you, you'd know it without a doubt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2014): I don't know if he loves you. He certainly does NOT respect you.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (30 July 2014):
 I agree, love and 3-some aren't mutually exclusive.
But Like SVC said, if you have doubts, then perhaps not.
How long have you been together, why did this 3-some come up? IS is something YOU want? (If not then TELL him I don't WANT other people in our sexlife, then he can either agree or walk away and find someone who wants that.)
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (30 July 2014):
 I agree with Chigirl.
you can love someone and still want to be sexually adventurous.
IF you doubt he loves you, then he probably does not.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (30 July 2014):
 Wanting a threesome or not doesn't say anything about his love for you, it just states his sexual preference.
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