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Does he like me or not? He doesn't seem to make the effort unless I may have alcohol or something...

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Question - (2 June 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 3 June 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *orverRed27 writes:

Okay so this boy asked me to prom. i've liked him for so long and it was so cute the way he asked me. it was in school with a dozen roses and a little crown. anyways ive liked him for so long and he just had a girlfriend and one night (a while ago) he tried to kiss me when we were drunk and i said no because his girlfriend was my friend.oh yeah and on this night he came to my house, it was valentines day and he came to my house instead of hers after he worked but i dont know if it was becuase he wanted alcohol or what but anyways...4 weeks ago they broke up...and....

2 1/2 weeks ago he asked me to prom and 2 weekends ago he finally called me to hang out and he never usually calls me to hang out and im always the one to do that. we went to a party together and i snuck out and then went to his house at 3am and he was really faded but we held hands...

this past weekend we hung out at a party but he never called me...we almost kissed at this party when we were dancing but i was the one making the effort to do so but i was too scared to actually pursue it, so we didnt...

im really confused he never makes the effort to hang out unless i may have alcohol or something. its stupid, and i get mad at him for this...he's not the type of person that would get nervous to kiss someone so i dont know whats up with him...

does he like me? or not? im really confused.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008):

ok... Well stop having alcohol around.

If you make sure there's no alcohol around and that he knows about this, then you'll soon see if it's you he likes or the booze.

He'll either continue to see you or stop.

Make sure that you take things slowly with you... He has just broken up with his girlfriend and it would be terrible if you were just a re-bound.

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