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writes:I am not sure what to think, I have fancied this guy from work for a while, on a recent night out he asked me when we were going to hook up because he knew I fancied him and I said well that depends when you want to go out, he looked and smiled and just said you know what I mean, and my reply was I don't do one offs, to which he replied it doesn't just have to be a one off, but, he has never asked me out, what does this mean he just wants sex if we are both up for it or just see what happens?I have to say I am quite a shy person and he knows this?
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (2 August 2009):
 He wants a friends with benefits situation, nothing more. If he wanted more he would have asked you out properly.
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reader, indian.boy65  +, writes (1 August 2009):
 U know, it depends so much on what YOU want. Maybe You want sex too and are afraid to admit it.. even to yourself.. We attach so much importance to sex- both the presence and absence of it that we forget to extract pleasure out of our relationships.. If you fancy the guy then go ahead and enjoy yourself but.. but without any attachments.. Take your time and see how things develop... Maybe he will fall head over heels for you or maybe not!!!!! Either way, give this a try.. Cheers
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2009): He wants just sex, when he said 'doesn't just have to be a one off' I think he meant having sex more than once, not for it to develop into something more. If you don't want to get hurt, then I suggest you don't sleep with him.
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reader, jenny-love +, writes (1 August 2009):
hi i think you already know the anser to ur question this guy knows you like him and thinks that you too can have bit fun but i dont think hes looking for anything more than that ortherwize he would have asked you out properly if he really wanted more he would want to make an impression with you so there fore would ask you out to get to know you bit better and take it from there but this guy defo just looking for sex whether it be more than once or not as soon as he has had his fun and gets board he will move on to something else so if you can handle just havin sex with him when it suits then go for it but if ur not that type and want more then i would move on if i were you cos you will only be left hurt n dissapointed x
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