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writes:before i start, i would like to say that i trust this guy 200%"or i wouldn't have done it. okay. there was this guy i met a couple months ago. the sexual chemistry between us was obvious. well we stared msging each other on fb, flirting and stuff, and i sent him pictured. (topless no face)"and then he got back with his ex and said he was sorry and hoped we could still be friends. so we stopped flirting and that. (i dont like him in that way so i was not upset)Well they broke up, and i sent him a picture if me in just my bra and undies (not straight after they broke up) well he said the picture was hot, and anyway long story short, i send him a naked one.well see i trust he wouldnt show no one.Well that was a month aho and he said the pic was hot again. we saw each other yesterday first time since sending the naked ones, and it was awkward. he didnt mention the pics and we have not had sex yet. Does he really not find me attractive? the sexual tension is obvious to me. also i sent him a msg and he didnt replyz(friday)tho he did comebtalk to me yesterday. has he changed his mind from wanting sex with me( we arranged this months ago) sorry if this is soo long. im just confused as to whether he has changed his mind.
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reader, BondGirl72  +, writes (11 June 2012):
 Why are you sending around pictures of yourself topless or in your bra and undies? Do you know how dangerous that is? Do you understand that other people can use these for their own purposes? Do you know these can come back to haunt you if you want any kind of professional job? So, when he got back with his ex, you sent him more pictures, but you "don't like him like that"??? I'm confused. So, I thought you said the sexual chemistry was obvious, but you don't like him like that? You sound confused to me. If you just want sex...go after it. If you want a relationship with someone, it's not a good idea to send provocative pictures of yourself around first. No one will respect you and they will just use you for sex.
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