A
male
age
30-35,
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writes:oh my God, this is just not right my heart is burning with desperation and i don't know if my thoughts are selfish and if i am being stupid for looking at someone else, but woman are just so wonderful, your laughs will make us weep and beg and do all kinds of tricks so that we, man, can be noticed by you, and even just by a look you guys can put our whole lives backwards, i love girl A she is amazing, she only sometimes asks too much of me, but then i feel this explosion of happiness when i see girl B and it is not lust, for i am past that stage of physical need of woman, i understand it and recognize it, but when girl B walks by i see stars, and a laugh overtakes my expression, and it is as if i was complete, but i don't want to play stupid games, try and see if B is better, i could not dare hurt girl A's feeling, not for the world, so my dilemma is what to do, P.S girl A does not know i exist.=|
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): The way you describe girl A it seems like a crush or infatuation. The way you describe girl B it seems like you are in love with her and words can not describe the way you feel. The question is how can you hurt girl A's feelings if she doesn't know you exist? You are only hurting yourself by not letting yourself be known. Obviously, the way you describe girl A she somewhat knows you exist. The thing is if you don't talk to girl A you can never really know if she feels the same way. When rereading your question it sounds like you are dating girl A and contemplating whether or not to call it quits with girl A. Crushes are something to recon with; they are tolls of the heart. Your question is kind like an unsolved riddle. Maybe try conversing with girl A and girl B, and see which girl you know you find most compatible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2010): ~PERPLEXED BY AMBIGUITY~
Sweetie, I'm a bit confused...
Now you directly state that you "love" girl A...HOWEVER...You don't directly state that you love girl B although you reference your behavior and emotional reaction to her and state that she makes you feel complete, both of which point to "love?"
Could you please further delineate clarity between the two?
Thanks Sweetie~
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2010): Hm. Your feelings for both sounds similar, though you are clearly leaning towards B. More detail would help in lending advise... I wonder how Girl A is asking too much of you when she doesn't know you exist? Do you mean you think she's out of your league or something? You should never believe that of anyone.
-Tante Victoire
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