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writes:I need to know if there is an answer to my question, me and my ex broke up last september because he cheated on me with another women with whom he is still seeing. He came here tonight and we had sex, not the first time, we do have sex regularly, after he left tonight its obvious he went back to her, his van was outside her house after he left here, yes on valentines day..whats going on, surely she would no, she might want a bit and he wont be able to perform...We have known each other for over 20 years, i still do care for him a lot but don't no where i am with him, i don't think he knows himself..do you think we have a future or not...every time we are together we cant keep our hands of each other....
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reader, s from wales +, writes (15 February 2008):
s from wales is verified as being by the original poster of the question Its sort of the same here with me, i,m sure his girlfriend knows, i have told her twice, but what his answer to her was i dont know. I,m probably doing it to piss her off,i no i,ll get fed up with it, at the moment i dont really care, not a good attitude i no, i,m not committed to him as i do go out and meet other guys, no one special yet. He,s definately not a one woman man as he cheated on his ex-wife numerous times, which i no to be a fact, that is why they are divorced.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2008): Hi s from wales
In exact same situation as u & hate it!!!! He cheated on me he's with someone else now and he comes back to me all the time, she knows hates it but does nothing about it!!!! this has gone on for 4 yrs in that time her father died that was his excuse not to leave her. Now I have told him get lost! he don't like it, we have a daughter nearly 18 she wants nothing to do with him (like this for yrs)if anyone has any idea why guy would keep doing this ( I have told g/f) its a joke now and part of me plays the game just ot piss his g/f off (bad i know) but hey c'mon theres no future with this guy he's a loser like mine its only sex and you will get fed up with that aswell
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reader, amber2328  +, writes (15 February 2008):
 There is no future with him! He is using you!!!! You deserve a man who isn't going to get up and leave you to stay with another woman. You are better than that tell him to get lost and I bet you will feel a lot better...
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (15 February 2008):
 If your ex broke up because he was cheating on you and now he is cheating with you he probably doesn't fancy the idea of being a one woman man.
I think the future you will have with him involves another woman. So you need to decide if that's ok with you and then you can decide which woman you want to be. The one he's with or the one he shouldn't be with.
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