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Do you think my first love ever thinks of me, too?

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Question - (30 October 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 11 November 2008)
A male South Africa age 41-50, *umasoon writes:

hi would like know: does first love really last in a womens heart? eg - we went out at age of 13. she had few boyfrends, plus engaged and divorced now. but what i would like to know is does she think of me or even miss me? we see each other often but did not speak for about 12years. so does she think n miss me or not?

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A female reader, deejuliet United States +, writes (11 November 2008):

deejuliet agony auntI doubt very much that she feels jealous of your current love or that she still has 'feelings' for you. You will always have that special place in her heart, but you are not there currently. You are only a nice memory. Dont go trying to mess things up for her or yourself with this silly fantasy.

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A male reader, cumasoon South Africa +, writes (11 November 2008):

cumasoon is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks to all u ppl who replied happy to hear that but one more question u think she has feelinfs for me still or just a place in her heart. i am with another lady but i feel jealous when she is maryying someone else think she feels same way for me

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008):

I think the following explains it all:

"Every experience in life, everything with which we have come in contact in life, is a chisel which has been cutting away at our life statue, molding, modifying, shaping it. We are part of all we have met". (quote by Orison Sett Marden).

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A female reader, deejuliet United States +, writes (30 October 2008):

deejuliet agony auntAs her first love you will always hold a special place in her heart. She has fond memories of you and probably thinks of you now and again. But that does not necessarily mean that she is missing you or wants you back.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008):

I know that I think about my first love everyday. I have only seen him once in 29 years but he is always in my heart and will always be. Surprisingly, when I did talk to him a few years ago...he still remembered everything about me, my likes, dislikes...stuff my husband doesn't even remember about me, and I have been married to him for 29 years. If my first love was go show up at my door tomorrow and ask me to leave with him, I would not hesitate...that love is still that strong!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008):

She might not be missing you, but she will always remember her first time. If that was with you, well then you are part of her memories for life.

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