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hi i am single love life enjoy it to fullest. i am from soujth africa. an i hate people who lie and people who just are un able to reason

Do you think my first love ever thinks of me, too?

Q.   hi would like know: does first love really last in a womens heart? eg - we went out at age of 13. she had few boyfrends, plus engaged and divorced now. but what i would like to know is does she think of me or even miss me? we see each other often ...

A.   11 November 2008: thanks to all u ppl who replied happy to hear that but one more question u think she has feelinfs for me still or just a place in her heart. i am with another lady but i feel jealous when she is maryying someone else think she feels same way for me... (read in full...)

I have some concerns about my husband's online activities.

Q.   Hello, I have some concerns about my husband's online activities from before we got married and up to now. When we were first getting together, he lived in another state because he was stationed there with the Air Force. So I moved there to be with ...

A.   10 November 2008: i would say that believe him and dont ask he will deny it and also cause a fight rather keep track of him and maybe try speakto him about thr things u see but in a diiferent way dont mention u seen his things. e.g. u seen naked women ask him like ... (read in full...)

Did I push him too far by putting him out?

Q.   I have beein in a relationship for twelve years, and have children. My boyfriend and I were having problems and we broke up because of his flirting and he moved out. However we were back sleeping together soon after he moved out and I really ...

A.   30 October 2008: look dont feel empty cause u dont need to they plenty men out there for u and he knows u need him so he will take advantage of u. try not to feel in need for him it makes u weaker towards him. and if u want use him like how his using u . p .s. u ... (read in full...)

After having sex with me he told me "I don't want to be with you!"

Q.   I am 25. My boyfriend ended things almost a month ago. Since then we've pretty much spoken everyday, and on sunday we met up for sex. I know, I know, absolutely terrible idea and I know that now. We had a great night and he stayed the morning after ...

A.   30 October 2008: hoestly forget him ignore him get some1 else takes1 to forget 1. dont let him use u u better than that... (read in full...)

I have some concerns about my husband's online activities.

Q.   Hello, I have some concerns about my husband's online activities from before we got married and up to now. When we were first getting together, he lived in another state because he was stationed there with the Air Force. So I moved there to be with ...

A.   29 October 2008: wow sounds pretty confusing and tough. but anyway from guys opinoin men love forbidden fruit but they realise the bitterness of it later so i would say is believe him and also be positive or also try new sex things with him ask him what he needs n ... (read in full...)

After having sex with me he told me "I don't want to be with you!"

Q.   I am 25. My boyfriend ended things almost a month ago. Since then we've pretty much spoken everyday, and on sunday we met up for sex. I know, I know, absolutely terrible idea and I know that now. We had a great night and he stayed the morning after ...

A.   28 October 2008: hi honestly he is using u for the sex n comfort ifi were u i would get some1 else to show him that u can do with out him and also u might find happiness else where but if u date some1 else . show a strong character show that u fine with ou him be ... (read in full...)

I love my husband to death but he doesn't feel the same, never touches me or holds me, goes on dating sites, knowing I adore him and would turn the other cheek!

Q.   Dear Cupid, Gosh where do I begin. Well I have been with my husband for 5 years. Only been married a little over a year. I love my husband to death but I know he doesn't feel the same for me. Well he says he loves me but he never shows it, ...

A.   28 October 2008: I would say ask him what does he find so enjoyable on the sites that u dont have an tell him you willing to explore try new things with him not swinging and taht biut like toys or role play etc. Tell him you want to make it work and if all fails ... (read in full...)

I'm 23 and have never given a blowjob. Will someone please tell me how ?

Q.   Ok, this is very embarrassing for me but it's something that bothers me......alot! I am 23 years old and don't know how to give a blow job for the life of me. I have had relationships in the past and they have never mentioned it, but i know myself i ...

A.   27 October 2008: hi i would wait for him to ask an remember always first time for everything just close ur eyes an relax its hard i no but try first with a toy or fruit... (read in full...)

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