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writes:dear cupid,i dont no where to start.I was in a serious relationship with a boy from school it was only going on 6 months we were always on and off,but i loved hi.I went on a school trip,abroad,and broke up with him for another guy..!! it was so unexpected but i knew it was some thing i had to persue.Me and the new guy were really happy getting and along well.Then every thing changed,we stopped seeing each other but after a month got back together.Things then were back on track.Even better than ever!!But as school finished we werent going to see each other much for 3 months.We were both willing to keep it going,but we started fighting loads,mainly becoz i felt weird about our relationship i never told him than i thought he could be a bit more affectionate,i was always holding his hand,giving him hugs etc...but then i realised i wanted him to be more like my old boy-friend,the fights got worse and we spilt but i still have many feelings for him.. i dont no what to do, is it worth getting back with him?? or do i just not like being single?? please help!! xxxxxxxxxxkayxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (15 June 2007):
 Sit down and chat with him about how you feel and how you would like to show him more affection. At your age 13-15 I wouldn't tie everything in to this one guy.
Maybe you should take some time out for you. Stay single over the summer, and have a good time with friends and family and see what happens when you go back to school.
You never know the guy may call you over the summer to chat.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (15 June 2007):
 Your situation is clear to me - got it.
I will explain to you what is going on.
First key: "i wanted him to be more like my old boy-friend".
Second key: "i thought he could be a bit more affectionate".
What is Relationship about? Is it really about compromises?
NO - compromises mean that none of you gets what one wants.
Relationship is about making two singles become a couple where BOTH partners work on how to get what each of them wants.
My advice are the words that you should tell your boyfriend:
Love me the way I want, and I will love you the way you want.
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